I am sitting at the clinic awaiting an appointment for some follow up. It is really interesting the array of people that come and go as I wait for my name to be called. The visits with an old classmate and other from years ago cannot help but take me down memory lane.
I was fortunate growing up. We never had any extra money. There were instances or issues like any other family but I am grateful for how I was raised and who raised me. Could it have been better? Of course. Could it have been worse? Hell yes! I was and still am very fortunate. Looking at some of those coming in the clinic only solidified my conclusions.
I had the chance to visit briefly with a school mate who was a few years younger than me. She never had a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. She was with her mom and we exchanged a few words of encouragement and Christmas blessings. As a child, I know she didn’t have anything. Nothing. Her poor mom was in an abusive relationship for many years and today she looked tired. However, it was fun to watch them and how they have surpassed some of life’s struggles.
Christmas is a time to reflect. I get somewhat emotional this time of year and I am comfortable with that. I was fortunate to have 26 Christmas Eves with my father and this will be the 18th without him. I know that he is my families angel and we are fortunate for that.
As a lad I remember going to his little house each Christmas Eve morning for breakfast and lunch. We would open our gifts and enjoy each other’s company playing cards. As I got older, I went through a stage where I didn’t maybe appreciate that enough. Once I figured it out realized that I didn’t know everything, I was able to spend a couple more Christmas with him before he passed.
Take advantage of the special moments. Life is so short and precious that in a blink of an eye it’s gone. Tell the ones you love that you love them. Cherish the season and God’s Blessings.